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The Leader’s Guide to Polarities

Have you ever felt torn between driving execution forward or pausing for a strategic reset? Or find yourself juggling to meet performance targets while keeping your team engaged? 


At work and in life, we are constantly navigating seemingly opposing demands: balancing the present with the future, engaging people while driving performance, preserving traditions while embracing modernity, and being passionate about work while protecting your time, among many others.


As Leaders, we often approach such situations or tensions with an “either/or” mindset, instinctively choosing one side over the other. Personal preferences, cognitive biases, past experiences, or contextual pressures, make one pole feel safer, simpler, or more aligned with immediate needs. We’ve all met (or been) some of these leaders: The Chaotic Entrepreneur, the Inflexible CFO, the Soft Leader, the Micro-manager, The Overthinker...


These are just a few of the many examples of when our natural inclinations restrict us to our comfort zone, but effective leaders recognize that their superpower comes from having range, and their ability to dance along the spectrums is what drives sustainable organizational growth. They are masters at navigating polarities in leadership.  

Polarities at the self, team and organization level

In this article, we define polarities and explore examples of how they surface at the individual, team, and organizational levels, and recommend a tool that can help you identify and master polarities. 






Defining Polarities 

Polarities, sometimes referred to as tensions or paradoxes (although we have a whole discussion with Jose Santos about why that’s wrong), are described by  Barry Johson, the creator of Polarity Management, as interdependent pairs. Think of inhaling and exhaling, or day and night. Both are vital but excess of either can be deadly. Addressing polarities effectively invites us to approach them through “both/and” thinking. 


Polarities exist in opposition to problems. Problems are situations where a clear choice needs to be made, they call for an Either/or mentality. Polarities invite us to devise a third way that leverages the positives of both sides. 


Let’s look at some examples of how polarities show up for leaders, teams, and organizations. 



Leadership Level

Mastering polarities as a tool for self-leadership is a topic that can be found in several fields from leadership development, to coaching, to psychology. While there is no definite list of polarities, during our 2024 Cosmic Conference’s The Cosmic Dance: Dualities in Leadership, we identified 8 polarities that leaders most commonly face. 

List of 8 polarities

Take a moment to consider which ones resonate most with you and let us know by filling out this form.


By way of an example, Performance and Engagement was highlighted by most of the attendees of the conference as something they struggle with. Leaders who over-emphasize performance are at risk of creating a culture of fear, where results are achieved at the cost of morale. On the other hand, over-prioritizing engagement can lead to complacency and underachievement. Team members feel supported but lack the drive to deliver results.


Gallup surveyed 8,000 employees and found that the highest performing managers are both performance and engagement focused.  In fact, employees who work for a manager who helps them set clear goals are 17x more likely to be engaged, and engaged employees are more likely to perform, delivering up to 21% higher profitability.


Effective leaders understand that true success requires embarrassing both of these priorities. They drive performance by setting clear goals, measuring outcomes, and fostering accountability while simultaneously cultivating engagement through recognition, inclusion, and meaningful connection.  



Team Level

At the team level, individual polarities often emerge in collaborative dynamics and group processes. They surface when members adopt distinct perspectives or approaches that sit on different ends of a spectrum. 


These polarities also exist when we consider the group as a whole. Teams can develop tendencies shaped by their history, leadership, and external environment, leaning too heavily toward one pole at the expense of the other. 


For example, a team with a strong focus on immediate operational success may struggle to develop a forward-thinking strategy, while a team consumed with visionary planning may miss critical short-term opportunities. The key to managing these polarities lies in fostering agility, where the team draws on individual strengths to adjust behaviors based on context and strategy, ensuring balance and alignment with evolving goals


The dynamic relationship between leaders and the diverse perspectives they represent define a team's ability to leverage its collective range. Successful teams harness these dualities to drive cohesive and strategic decision-making, turning potential conflicts into a powerful advantage.



Organizational Level

Polarities at the organizational level often surface as strategic tensions. Organizations frequently grapple with competing demands such as balancing innovation with operational efficiency, short-term results with long-term growth, or global consistency with local adaptation. These tensions are not problems to be solved but interdependent forces that must both be embraced to sustain organizational effectiveness.


At the organizational level, polarities manifest through the systems, structures, and culture of the organization. For example, strategic priorities may require simultaneously exploiting existing capabilities for profitability while exploring new opportunities for future relevance.


Similarly, organizational cultures must foster both accountability and creativity, enabling teams to deliver results while encouraging experimentation and learning.



The Roman God Janus

The Roman God Janus, with his two sets of eyes - one looking to the past and the other to the future - symbolizes this ability to balance both perspectives. 


Organizations that master polarities intentionally design their structures and processes to navigate these tensions. This can include creating mechanisms for integration and collaboration across different functions or teams, embedding shared values that support both sides of the spectrum, and aligning leadership behaviors to model the right culture. By leveraging these approaches, organizations can avoid becoming overly rigid or chaotic, maintaining agility in the face of complexity.


Ultimately, polarities at the organizational level highlight the importance of viewing the business as a dynamic system where every element influences the other. Success lies not in resolving these tensions but in developing the capability to harness their value across the spectrum.



Mastering Polarities: A Continuous Leadership Practice

To effectively manage polarities, leaders must first name them - identify the opposing forces at play within themselves, or their teams. Once the polarities are recognized, leaders can unpack the value of each side, while also acknowledging the risks of overemphasizing either force. Understanding the strengths of both poles helps visualize their interdependence and shows how balancing them drives success.

To maintain a healthy equilibrium, effective leaders then focus on practical strategies, daily habits, routines, and decision-making processes. By regularly assessing and learning from the forces at play, leaders can adapt their approach and navigate polarities more effectively over time.


The polarity map

The Polarity Map, developed by Dr. Barry Johnson, is a powerful visualization tool to help leaders see, map, assess, learn, and leverage polarities effectively.  If you’re looking to apply this to yourself as a leader or within your team, download our Polarity Map worksheet.



"Being 'right' is the easy part. Finding the 'rightness' within the opposite point of view is the challenge." - Barry Johnson

Navigating polarities is a constant, inherent part of leadership, team dynamics, and organizations. In the face of these interdependent forces, leaders are called not to choose one side, but to learn the art of embracing the two. 


Once leaders begin to recognize these polarities, they will start to appear everywhere—shaping decisions, team interactions, and organizational strategies. Leaders who understand and leverage polarities effectively unlock their potential to drive meaningful change.


For a discussion on the limitations of polarities, rewatch the closing event of the 2024 Cosmic Centaurs. 

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